In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of teaching high school students how to show interest in conversations, even when discussing topics they may not find particularly engaging. By doing so, students can develop strong social skills and empathy, which are essential components of Social-Emotional Learning.

Introduction

Everyone has different interests, and it’s natural for students to feel more engaged in some conversations than others. However, it’s crucial for them to learn how to show interest and actively listen, even when discussing topics that might not be their favorite. This skill helps build positive relationships and fosters a supportive environment where everyone feels heard and valued.

No-Prep Activity: The Interest Switch

This simple activity requires no preparation or materials from the educator and helps students practice showing interest in conversations. Here’s how it works:

1. Divide students into pairs.
2. Ask each student to think of a topic they are passionate about.
3. One student will start discussing their chosen topic, while the other student listens attentively.
4. After 2 minutes, the listener should summarize what they’ve heard and ask a relevant question about the topic.
5. The roles are then reversed, with the other student discussing their chosen topic.
6. After both students have had a chance to speak and listen, discuss the experience as a group. Encourage students to share how they felt when their partner showed interest in their topic.

Discussion Questions

• Why is it important to show interest in conversations, even when the topic isn’t something you’re passionate about?
• How did you feel when your partner showed interest in your topic? How did it affect the conversation?
• What strategies can you use to show interest in a conversation when the topic isn’t something you’re naturally drawn to?
• How can active listening help improve your relationships with others?
• What are some challenges you might face when trying to show interest in a conversation, and how can you overcome them?

Related Skills

Teaching students to show interest in conversations is just one aspect of Social-Emotional Learning. Other related skills that can help students develop healthy relationships and emotional well-being include:

• Active listening
• Empathy and understanding
• Effective communication
• Conflict resolution
• Respecting differences

Next Steps

Now that you have an understanding of the importance of teaching students to show interest in conversations and a simple no-prep activity to practice this skill, it’s time to explore more resources to support your students’ Social-Emotional Learning journey. To access free samples of materials that can help you teach this skill and others, visit Everyday Speech’s sample materials page.