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Starting a Conversation

Initiating communication with others leads to creating connections with people by sharing information and experiences. Starting a conversation puts children in the driver’s seat of their social world as they explore different people and personalities.

Preview an SEL skills lesson: Starting a Conversation

1 Show the video to your students

[SCENE 1 – Liz is seated on a couch and looking at her phone]

Ashley: (sits beside Liz) Hey, Liz.

Liz: (looks up from phone) Hi, Ashley.

Ashley: Did you hear we’re having an assembly tomorrow?

Liz: Yeah. I’m really excited. It’s after lunch, right?

Ashley: Yeah, 12.

 

[FROM MY VIEW]

Ashley” (voice over) When I want to start a conversation with someone, I say “Hi” to get their attention and let them know I’m talking to them. Then, I bring up the topic by asking a question or making a comment about the topic.

[SCENE 1 replay – Liz is seated on a couch and looking at her phone]

Ashley: (sits beside Liz) Hey, Liz.

Liz: (looks up from phone) Hi, Ashley.

Ashley: Did you hear we’re having an assembly tomorrow?

Liz: Yeah. I’m really excited. It’s after lunch, right?

Ashley: Yeah, 12.

 

[FURTHER PRACTICE]

Narrator: When we want to start a conversation, we greet the person we’re talking to.

Ashley: (sits beside Liz) Hey, Liz.

Liz: (looks up from phone) Hi, Ashley.

Narrator: Then, we ask a question or make a comment to start the conversation about a topic.

Ashley: Did you hear we’re having an assembly tomorrow?

Liz: Yeah. I’m really excited.

Narrator: Now, we can continue taking turns to keep the conversation going.

Liz: It’s after lunch, right?

Ashley: Yeah, 12.

 

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Other SEL materials on Starting a Conversation
Before Starting a Conversation Video
Before Starting a Conversation

Middle & High School

Starting a Conversation Interactive
Starting a Conversation

Interactive Worksheet: How to Prepare for a Conversation Activity
Interactive Worksheet: How to Prepare for a Conversation

Middle & High School

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