Self-Control for Kids: Using the Scanner at School

This session includes self-control activities for kids, helping students spot early body clues at school, like a fast heartbeat or sweaty hands. Through a short video that models the Self-Controller Scanner, a discussion about what the body can tell them, and a quick game where they name calming strategies in turn, students practice scanning their brain and body. The takeaway: noticing feelings early makes it easier to stay in control at school.

Video modeling lesson
Extension activity
Skill
Self-Regulation
Goal
Using Your Self-Controller
Grade level
Elementary School

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Engaging materials

  • Video modeling lesson

    Using Your Self-Controller Scanner at School

    This video models how to keep self-control in school by using your Self-Controller Scanner. This tool helps you learn to scan your brain and body to notice your feelings when you become upset. Then we walk you through strategies you can use to keep control of these emotions.

  • Extension activity

    Self-Control and Calm Body

    We're learning how to belly breathe to quickly calm our brains so we can stay in control of our feelings. Can anyone describe in detail how to belly breathe?

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  1. Warm-up

    • Video: Hot Cocoa Breathing2:05
    • Video: Daily Intention2:59
    • Video: Body Squeeze2:12
  2. Session Opener

    Guiding Question: What can body clues tell a person?

  3. Practice

    • Discussion Question
    • Role-Play Activity
    • Mini Game

How to use it with your students

  1. 1Watch Play the video modeling lesson so students see the skill in action.
  2. 2Practice Try the skill together with a discussion prompt, role-play, or mini game.
  3. 3Extend Use the extension activity to help students carry the skill further.

What's Covered

In this lesson, students learned how to use a "self-controller scanner" to check their brain and body and notice physical signs that a big feeling is building, like a racing heart or sweaty hands. They practiced naming what they were feeling and choosing a strategy that fit the moment, such as taking a break or squeezing their hands together. They also worked on telling the difference between big and small problems and knowing when asking an adult for help is a good option.

Key Terms

Self-Controller
Noticing when big feelings start to build inside you and using a calming strategy early so you can stay in control. When a crowd or a busy moment makes you nervous, you pick the strategy that helps you feel best.
Body Clues
Body clues are signals you notice inside your body, like a fast heartbeat, a hot face, or tense muscles, that tell you a feeling is starting. Noticing them early can help you figure out what your body needs.

Sample IEP Goal This Session Supports

  • Using Your Self-Controller

    Learner will use their Self-Controller to manage stress responses when triggers arise (e.g., unexpected changes, transitions away from preferred activities) by recognizing stress signals and applying a self-selected strategy before reacting in 4 out of 5 opportunities independently/given X prompt(s).

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Send this tip home to support generalization

When a strong feeling starts to build at home or at school, try asking what they notice in their body first. Then they can pick a strategy like squeezing their hands or taking a few belly breaths.

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Frequently asked questions

Is this intervention free?

Yes, this ready-to-teach session on Using the Scanner at School is free. You can access this intervention free for 14 days through the Everyday Speech Session Library. Every user gets three free sessions, but you can get more or extend your access by sharing the Session Library with friends and colleagues.

What ages is this for?

These materials are designed for elementary school students.

What's included?

You'll get access to your choice of warm-up videos, a session opener, a core material on Using Your Self-Controller Scanner at School, three practice prompts, and an extension activity, Self-Control and Calm Body.

What skill does this intervention teach?

This ready-to-teach session is on self-regulation - more specifically, using your self-controller.

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