Self-Monitoring for Teens: Learning to Self-Monitor

This session teaches self-monitoring strategies for students, helping them notice where their attention and effort are going and adjust before things slip. They explore why checking in with themselves supports success, discuss two students who handle a drifting mind in different ways, and play a quick game that asks them to weigh a situation and decide whether a response fits. The takeaway: small check-ins help them stay on track.

Video lesson
Extension activity
Skill
Self-Regulation
Goal
Executive Functioning
Grade level
Middle & High School

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Engaging materials

  • Video lesson

    Learning to Self-Monitor

    In this video lesson, students learn how to self-monitor their attention and behavior by identifying trouble spots, setting a goal, choosing a way to track progress, and scheduling check-ins, then practice a body scan.

  • Extension activity

    Learning to Self-Monitor Journal

    In this journal activity, students identify strategies they can use to improve their self-monitoring skills, thinking about how they will check in on their own progress and behavior.

Plus everything you need to teach them

  1. Warm-up

    • Video: 4-7-8 Breathing2:13
    • Video: Obstacles into Opportunities Visualization1:19
    • Video: Yoga Pose Library
  2. Session Opener

    Guiding Question: Why does self-monitoring help a person succeed?

  3. Practice

    • Discussion Question
    • Role-Play Activity
    • Mini Game

How to use it with your students

  1. 1Watch Play the video lesson so students see the skill in action.
  2. 2Practice Try the skill together with a discussion prompt, role-play, or mini game.
  3. 3Extend Use the extension activity to help students carry the skill further.

What's Covered

In this lesson, students learned how to self-monitor by noticing their own actions and how their surroundings affect their focus and behavior. They practiced checking in with themselves by asking what was going well and what needed work, then choosing a strategy to adjust. They worked on this because catching when their attention drifts helps them refocus and stay on track in any setting.

Key Terms

Self-Monitoring
Checking in with yourself during a situation by silently asking how you feel and how you are acting. This helps you notice and adjust in the moment.
Self-Evaluation
Checking in on what you're doing and asking yourself what's going well and what needs work. It makes you aware when you've drifted off or need to adjust.

Sample IEP Goal This Session Supports

  • Executive Functioning

    Given a multi-step task, learner will use at least one self-selected organizational strategy (e.g., visual planner, breaking the task into steps, visual timer) to initiate and work through the task with decreasing adult support in 4 out of 5 opportunities independently/given X prompt(s).

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Send this tip home to support generalization

At home or in the classroom, when a student seems to lose focus, try asking them to name one thing going well and one thing they want to adjust right now. A quick self-check helps them notice and reset on their own.

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Frequently asked questions

Is this intervention free?

Yes, this ready-to-teach session on Learning to Self-Monitor is free. You can access this intervention free for 14 days through the Everyday Speech Session Library. Every user gets three free sessions, but you can get more or extend your access by sharing the Session Library with friends and colleagues.

What ages is this for?

These materials are designed for middle and high school students.

What's included?

You'll get access to your choice of warm-up videos, a session opener, a core material on Learning to Self-Monitor, three practice prompts, and an extension activity, Learning to Self-Monitor Journal.

What skill does this intervention teach?

This ready-to-teach session is on self-regulation - more specifically, executive functioning.

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