Social Skills Video: Reading a Situation
This blog post is one in a series of entries outlining our social skills videos. Our social skills video library is up to 80 videos, each focusing on a social interaction that children and young adults has to face on a daily basis. All videos compare expected and unexpected behavior and show internal thoughts to get the perspective of everyone involved. Videos can be viewed on all your devices, including PC’s, Mac’s, iPad and Android tablets, and smartphones. To learn more about our social skills video library, head over to our main Social Skills Videos page.
Nick can’t see that Graham feels upset. He keeps talking about his good grade even though Graham looks very sad. Nick needs to learn to read the situation before he speaks. That way he will avoid hurting people’s feelings.
Use Reading a Situation
It’s always smart to stop and think before talking. Who are we talking to? What’s happening right now? Where are we? If we are in the cafeteria we can have a very different conversation than if we are in a classroom. Does the person I’m talking to look happy? If not, maybe I should say something or ask what’s wrong. These are the types of questions our students should ask themselves before they start a conversation.