Social Skills Video: Only Talking About You
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Jeff, Kate, and Sarah are all talking. Whenever someone says something, Jeff makes the conversation about himself. Kate and Sarah get annoyed because they don’t always want to talk about Jeff. Jeff realizes he needs to talk about other people. He tries again and the group has a successful conversation!
Use Only Talking About You
I love when my students share their favorite interests with others but when they become repetitive I need to think of a way to gently teach them that this is not expected. I’ve found the easiest way is to point out how conversations go back and forth like a game of catch. If one person hogs the ball the whole time, they can’t play the game. It’s also important to point out that everyone has different interests and there is a time and place when you can talk about your favorite topics but let others talk about theirs as well.