Social Skills Video: Focusing on What People are Asking
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When Liz asks Bobby about his weekend, Bobby doesn’t know. Then he stops listening to Liz and the conversation ends. Next time, Bobby takes the time to think about what Liz is asking, and then thinks about his weekend so he can have a good conversation with Liz.
Use Focusing on What People are Asking
I’ve had many students who have learned to say “I don’t know” as any response. It’s great that they have learned to say this so they can ask for help but for many it becomes a fill in instead of answering people’s questions and conversing with them. I tell these students to stop and focus on the question they’re being asked. If they can make a picture in their head, it can help them retrieve an answer.